This was around the time when I started to realize that she had no plans on doing anything that I suggested or requested when it came to parenting him. To this day (updated: April 28, 2021) she still continues to cut his hair. I started to notice she was cutting his hair low for some reason.

Eventually, I realized why:

1. I’d started to grow my hair long mainly as a protest against her parental alienation actions trying to keep me from our son–constantly.
2. Her boyfriend (apparently now fiancé–whom I’ve never been introduced to STILL) has a striking resemblance to me. He’s more like a watered-down, low-calorie, Private No-Class, wanna-be-Bart. What??! Oh, yeah I gave this dude (I can’t even call him a man because I don’t respect him) plenty of chances to give me ANY reason to respect him. Way past the benefit of the doubt phase. Plus, didn’t you get the warning when you entered this site? =)
3. Anything I asked her NOT to do, she DID it. Regardless how big or small, she started to commit to this “just the opposite” mentality. Just to ‘mess’ with me and or try to discourage me from being an involved and caring parent.

She cut your hair JUST to make me mad and for 17 likes and 5 comments on Facebook

Some people will say “it’s just hair!”. But before you cast judgement, just consider this:

Your son’s first haircut is like a modern-day right of passage for some fathers. It’s supposed to be one of those “magical moments” every father should have a chance to experience. She took that away from me. Growing my hair out for him and then getting locks was the emotional solution I needed to make his hair a non-factor for me. Nowadays, I don’t care if she lets it grow, braids it or cuts it bald.

My hair is his hair